I am easily annoyed and can't really pick out just a few "pet peeves." This list is very long so I've tried to separate issues into logical categories to make the post easier to read. Please note that these are my personal opinions. All opinions on this blog are my own, of course, unless I have
laid the blame on attributed them to someone else. You may not agree with them, but who doesn't enjoy a good rant? Or even a bad one.
I have tried to include information that can help you improve your own blog, or at least bring it up to my standards which we all know are the best. Of course. (Please note this post is tagged "humor" as well as "rant". If this post offends you,
lighten up already!) I would kindly ask you to ignore the fact that I sometimes contradict myself, even within the same post. I am human after all, despite any rumors to the contrary.
CONTENTBoring - if you're going to publish a post on the Internet, make sure it's interesting. I am so outta there if you can't hold my attention. I'm sure that's true on my blog, too. In fact, there have been a lot of short visits on my blog lately so I must be attracting folks that drop in and get bored really fast. Guess it's time for
another boob post.
Length - I have no problem with long posts as long as it has content. Heck, I seem to have
incredible difficulty keeping my posts to a reasonable length myself. Some bloggers, though, desperately need an editor. If I'm going to plough through a 10,000 word post, it better damn well be worth the effort! This prejudice probably stems from a background in technical writing. There's no need in creative or blog writing to be as cut and dried as what is required by technical papers but please remember that
concise can be nice.
ENGLISH 101No capital letters - it is not a Herculean task to push down the shift key to capitalize proper names, "I" or the first letter of each sentence. By not making the effort to do this, my perception as a reader is that the writer is lazy or poorly educated. This may be incorrect, but that is my
perception.
Lousy spelling - most of us probably miss a typo here and there in our posts (and comments). That doesn't bother me. Consistently poor spelling, however, is inexcusable in a computerized world full of spell-checkers. Use them! (And, just to clarify, my name is Chile with an "e" and only one "l". It references the Mexican spelling for green chile pepper. Thank you for getting it right.)
Bad grammar & punctuation - unless English was not your first language or you are only 8 years old, in which case you really shouldn't be reading my
R-rated blog, learn to put a sentence together that can be deciphered by a person of average intelligence. Not everyone out there is as bright as I am.
ATTITUDESuperiority - bloggers that ooze a sense of superiority turn me off. There is a difference, sometimes subtle, between sharing learned information in an effort to be helpful versus flaunting it in an effort to boost status. (Eco 'Burban Mom, this does not include keeping my
best recipe a secret.) Careless wording can edge a helpful post into the dangerous realm of know-it-all territory. I should know, because I
do know it all. Ha!
Self-righteous - whether it is founded in religious beliefs, veganism, reproductive rights, environmentalism, or some other passion, this attitude is likely to turn more people away from a cause than draw them in. It's that old honey or vinegar issue. Rather than being abrasive and unpleasant, try sweet talking folks and then hit 'em upside the head with your cause.
BLOG PURPOSEBusiness blog posing as personal blog - I don't mind bloggers who want to sell a book they've written; heck, I've been told that some publishers now require authors to have a blog to build a customer base. I hate it, though, when a blog poses as a personal blog when the real and only purpose is to get you to buy their crap. And, boy oh boy, do they have tons of it available for sale all over their website. Each "post" links to ever-so-helpful products or books that they just
happen to be selling on their site. Let me clarify this because I do read a couple of blogs that sell a few things. The key is whether the posts have considerable helpful content
independent of the products for sale. In other words, can I still learn something useful without having to buy their stuff?
Ad-heavy blogs - these rarely feature in my regular reading or in my blogroll, no matter how good the content. Look, I understand that maintaining a blog takes time and that can take time away from activities that make or save money. Mine sucks up a huge amount of my time and I always feel like I could do more - write more, dress up the site, read other blogs, and so on - but I've accepted that it's not my source of income. I have no problem with a few discreet and content-appropriate ads to offset some of the time spent blogging. Blogs with so many ads that I can't find the actual posts drive me nuts and I rarely bother visiting them.
Obsession with Stat Numbers - I love when bloggers post the bizarre and funny searches by which readers have found their blogs. It's a fascinating look into the way the Internet is used as well as how people think (or don't). An occasional post marking a milestone in stats is also fine;
I've done that myself. However, there are blogs that seem primarily interested in building their readership without actually providing anything solid for them to read. I have to wonder then if they're just trying to increase ad revenue by getting more hits. In any case, I soon abandon them because I want to be engaged and learn something new, not constantly reminded how wonderful their stats are and how to build up mine, too.
I'll admit, thought that this is a hard line to walk, because there is definite value in getting more exposure and seeking out ways to do that. For instance, I ask people participating in my challenges to link to it on their blogs. My desire is to draw in people that are willing to 'green up' their lives and the challenges help draw in a diverse crowd that otherwise might not think to make these kind of changes. And while my ego, of course, likes seeing this reflected in the stats, ultimately my goal is to help people learn and for me to have the opportunity to learn from them as well. It helps expose me to new and interesting blogs, too.
LAYOUTClick to read more - for some reason, perhaps inherent laziness, this bugs me. It bugs me that it bugs me because it's so petty, but I really don't want to have to click
again to read a full post after I've clicked to get to the blog in the first place. As I think about it, I wonder why this bothers me because it only involves two extra clicks - one to access the full post and one to return to the blog's main page.
Perhaps one way to explain it comes from something I heard at a lecture by a book editor. She brought in a big box of books and showed us how many books she receives every single week with requests to review. Since there is no possible way for her to review all of them, she has to make her selections as fast as possible. She said that if the first couple of paragraphs do not grab her attention, she tosses the book aside and moves on to the next one. That made perfect sense to me and I think I may be applying that sort of filter. If those first couple of sentences don't really grab my interest, I'm far less likely to click to read the rest in hopes that it will contain something of interest later. We all have limited time available, and I'm sorry to say that I may be missing out on your best posts because of my selection filter.
Light-colored text on light background - pastel text colors on white or off-white backgrounds may reflect your artistic inclinations, but they are very hard for us folks with older eyes (and bifocals) to read! If you want readers from all age groups, please consider choosing a darker color for your writing. In Blogger, and I assume other blog platforms, it's easy to adjust the colors in the Layout.
Font style - some font styles are naturally easier to read than others. I've been told that newspapers use
fonts with serifs because they can be read more easily in print than ones without. The font I use has serifs.
Here is an example of a font without them. My old eyes find the serifs easier to read on the monitor. I also think it looks classier.
Small font size - some blogs, evidently written by bloggers with 20/10 eyesight, select
a small font for their blogs. Sometimes it's downright tiny. I've struggled to read it on blogs that I like, but often gave up because it was too difficult to read. Thankfully, there is an easy solution to this problem: under the View tab in the top menu bar of my browser, I can go to "Text Size" and select "Larger". Yowza! I can see this! This works on most web pages, but not all. And it is a bit annoying when I go to the next site and have huge text jumping out at me because I forgot to reset the text size. So, you young hip bloggers can make it easy on us old folks by using a font color with more contrast to your background and avoiding tiny text. Thanks!COMMENTSRegistration - blogs that won't allow comments without registration specific to that blog only seem to get fewer comments. I have a hard enough time remembering all the user names and passwords already, and am unwilling to register in order to comment on just one blog. There are comment platforms or add-ins or whatever they are called available to use that will make it easier for your readers.
Lack of comments from non-bloggers - there are a few folks without their own blogs that comment regularly on blogs I read, but I've noticed that many non-bloggers do not. As long as the blogger allows anonymous comments, anyone can comment. This doesn't really fall in the category of pet peeve; it's just something that makes me sad. Do non-bloggers feel like they can't jump into our community? What can we do to draw them in to the discussions that happen in the comments section?
Spam - the only people that like spam are the spammers themselves and
Vikings. Oh, and some misguided survivalist types. If a blogger fears spam, they can employ comment moderation to screen them before allowing comments to be published. I find simply using email notification is sufficient in dealing with spam, although that means anyone subscribing to my comments sees the spam, too, before I delete it.
Anonymous bloggers - this really doesn't bother me except when someone is signing up for a challenge. If the person did not use Blogger's OpenID option, or the name/URL choice, on the comment box, I have no idea if they have a blog or where it might be. Sometimes I know they have a blog but don't know what it is. I've tracked some down and then had to make a determination whether they intentionally or accidentally didn't include the blog link when signing up for the challenge. If you'd like others to check out your blog, remember to check the appropriate box when commenting. Oh, and don't sign in
and also type in your blog address at the end of your comment. That's overkill. All of us on our computers know what a hyperlink is.
Comments not available by email - It didn't take long for me to get totally spoiled by Blogger's email notification of comments left on someone else's blog. It's a very easy way to follow the discussion without having to remember when and where I posted a comment. Unfortunately, the other blogging platforms don't seem to offer this consistently. That's one thing that's really bugged me about Wordpress, although there are other features to that platform that make me envious. Then Melinda unveiled her
new blog on Wordpress, complete with
email notification for comments. Hurray! I'm hoping other Wordpress bloggers will soon tweak their blogs to do this, too.
Lack of acknowledgment - when I first started reading blogs, I noticed that I felt more welcome at blogs where the blogger acknowledged the comments left by readers than the ones where comments were seemingly ignored. I also felt sad when I left a comment and the blogger consistently ignored me but chatted up the others. I understand this better now that I've been blogging for a year, have developed relationships and friendships with other bloggers, and don't always have time to respond to each and every comment. However, I do strive to respond to and acknowledge most comments on my blog. It's not that I want to "have the last word" but rather that I want my readers to know that I am listening to them and value their input. I've said it before and will say it again, if you are reading posts on my blog and other blogs but not the comments, you are missing out on a lot of information, and half the fun.
Rudeness - for one reason or another, sometimes bloggers just don't see eye-to-eye. Sometimes it's simply a difference in style, other times it's a difference in viewpoint. There have been times when I've enjoyed the writing on a blog and continued to visit despite such differences. I've felt compelled to leave a comment on these blogs occasionally, too. That was when I learned that some bloggers don't understand common courtesy. Two, in particular, had apparently taken a dislike to me for some reason. In one case, my comments were always ignored, and in another, my comments were consistently belittled. Those two bloggers succeeded in driving me from their blogs, rarely to return. Pity, really, because both were good writers, often with good content. Play nice in the blogosphere, people! It's a microcosm of the real world.
LINKS To OTHERSReciprocal link expectations - just because I link to you or you link to me doesn't mean the other party is required to link back. As you can see from this long list of complaints, I'm pretty damn picky about what and who I read and link to. I do appreciate when others out there like my writing enough to link to my blog, and I try to remember to keep my blogroll updated with the blogs I'm currently enjoying, but I don't believe there is any obligation to provide a reciprocal link.
Challenge links - this is the exception to the opinion above. My desire with the challenges is to get people to examine how they routinely do something and strive to make a change for the better. Because it can result in positive changes, the more people participate, the better. Word gets out through the blogs of those participating, so if you don't put up the challenge logo and never ever mention the challenge on your own personal* blog, I feel just a little cheated. It's even worse if you sign up, never blog about it, and don't even bother to participate in the discussions or report in on how you're doing on my blog. To me, that begins to feel like you just wanted a free link on my blog in the participant list and were never really serious about the challenge in the first place.
*If you signed up for the challenge and your only web presence is a business site, I completely understand not posting about the challenge on your site. However, please do make the effort to come participate in the discussions on mine.
Yeah, that may be petty but I'm ranting, OK?!
Internet Search Engine misses - this complaint is partly about ego but also about connections and networking. For some reason, the search engines don't catch all of the links to my blog (and I suspect this is the case for others as well). I have gone through every blog reaction listed on
Technorati, for example, to create a folder of everyone who shows up with a link back to here. There are some of you dear readers out there that have had me in your blogrolls forever and you have never ever shown up there.
Pinging has not fixed this. I have the same problem with
Google Alerts frequently not picking up on new posts linking here.
Now, of course, I love to have people linking to me. It's nice to be acknowledged. However, that's not the primary reason that I check Technorati, have Google Alerts set up, and check my StatCounter often. I really want to know who finds me of interest, because if
you find me of interest, I may very well enjoy your blog as well. Plus, of course, I want to know what you're saying about me when you think I'm not looking. Yes, I'm talkin' about
you. Ha!
Seriously, though, it amazes me to have such a diverse group of readers. As an intentionally childless adult, how did I end up with all the nice mommy bloggers that come here? And as a complete non-knitter, what is my appeal to the knitting community? I understand vegans who like to check me out, but there are also devout carnivores who come by. This fascinates me and reminds me that there is a lot of common ground out there no matter how much the specifics may differ.
Challenge logo hyperlinks invisible - this is probably due to something I'm doing wrong, but it seems that the Internet search engines can't see the hyperlink embedded within the challenge logos. This means that I can't just do an easy search to find out who's participating in the challenges and might have forgotten to let me know, especially if they lurk on the blog but never comment. Sometimes I accidentally discover them and then am surprised to see my logo there. I've tried all kinds of searches with no success. Any of you wise bloggers able to explain this one?
That's all, folks!Can you believe I can't think of anything else to rant about right now? My ability to complain, find fault, and rant sometimes seems bottomless. Trust me, though, for every criticism I turn outwards, I level far harsher ones on myself. And I really do strive to provide constructive criticism with potential solutions here because I know how unproductive pure judgmentalism can be.
By the way, this blog post only had 3,243 words in it, including this notice. Thanks for reading all the way to the end!